Even If Some Days You Have To Search A Little Harder…
There are a lot of changes happening. BIG changes are on the horizon. As an empath I can feel something is coming but I haven’t been able to put it into words. But I can tell by my newsfeed lately that the energies are running high.
I know that it’s scary when you’re just starting your self-discovery journey, but I also know that it’s WORTH IT.
It’s okay to be a little vulnerable. It’s okay to be a little afraid. It’s okay to admit that you don’t know what you’re doing and you’re unsure of where you’re going. It all comes with growth. With the unknown.
Similar to The Hermit who walks with his lamp lighting each footstep along the way. You may not be able to see the path in clear view now. But if you continue to focus on what you can see and take each step one at a time, the sun will rise eventually.
We can sometimes have a hard time accepting change but that's exactly what needs to happen.
You just have to understand that you can’t reach growth without going through a little discomfort. You can’t receive different results when you continue the same unhealthy cycles. Eventually, the universe will force you to stop and make the decision. This is where the lessons truly lie.
We can say we want change. We can fantasize about change. We can will this change into existence and we can see small manifestations of this change come to fruition…
But you can’t receive with a closed fist.
When the opportunity for change ACTUALLY presents itself, we have to be willing to LET GO of something else in order to fully receive it….
That means letting go of lower vibrational habits. Letting go of coping mechanisms that no longer serve us. It means speaking our truth instead of using it as a weapon. It’s using your vulnerability as a shield instead of a pretending it doesn’t exist!
It means creating healthy boundaries and UPHOLDING them, no matter how uncomfortable. No matter who it is that’s trying to cross them. It’s learning to honor yourself and your spirit, while still honoring those around you. It’s knowing that YOUR well-being is of the highest priority. It’s understanding that you cannot give from an empty cup.
Unless you are fulfilled as an individual, you will NEVER fulfill your roles to other people. You think you can wear a mask but you can’t hide true happiness.
Not only do you dim your light by even attempting, but you limit your own potential to love all those around you to your fullest extent.
In order to be the best daughter, partner, sibling, parent, you have to be your best SELF. And that means making sure that You are happy. No matter how that is perceived by anyone else. The people that are meant to be in your life will understand and they will honor your needs.
Again I know it’s not easy. It will take some time and conscious effort. Possibly a few blows to your ego..
But once you begin to live your truth and speak your truth, your life will change Forever. I promise. I love you.
-Snowi
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Snowi Lee, Founder of Poetic Touch Therapy and The Haven Sisterhood & Self-Published Author.